Maybe some compassion should be in order. If this is a Poteet member, I imagine emotions are running pretty high. How many of us can honestly say that we have been in that same situation and experienced the same kind of disappointment? Obviously, they realized that they were too emotional on that post and deleted it. We could cut some slack on this and delete as well instead of having it live in cyberspace forever. Its hard to even imagine what they must be dealing with!